Wednesday, October 30, 2013
it isn't about walmart
This story is not, and has never been, about Walmart. It is not about a huge corporation, or a local establishment. It is about advocating for an exceptional man, one who deserves all this world has to offer him, and more. Matt is a miracle, his story is one that should be shared, and his life incredibly unique. To say that the accident that left him permanently mentally and physically disabled was and continues to be devastating is an understatement. It was life changing in every sense of the word. The ambition and motivation of Matt has always been inspiring and has become even more obvious in the last 8 years. He truly is one of a kind.
Statistically, the majority of people in a similar situation would not be working, whether by their own choice or limited opportunity. I believe one would be very hard pressed to find someone who would rather keep his job than his disability income, despite the fact that the disability income is a very large percentage of his earnings. Matt is a hard worker who no doubt wishes he was capable of his previous skill level, but tries to make the best of an incredibly tough situation. He has chosen to have a good attitude, to treat people with kindness and respect, and to work to the very best of his abilities. He is the most humble man I've ever met. He takes criticism in stride and is always looking to better himself.
The most important thing to know about Matt is that he is a family man with deep rooted faith. He loves me, his wife, and our children more than anything in the world. He shows this day in and day out through his actions and in his kind words. I have gotten word from many, many customers that mention seeing me to him and get, "Oh, you are so lucky. She is so wonderful..." I say this to show how loving he is. I have plenty of weaknesses, but he notices all of the good things and forgets the bad. He is this way with every person he loves, speaks with, and even those he sees in passing.
Our situation is very unique. Less than 5% of people in our circumstance are still married 5 years after a debilitating injury such as this. We are still happily married and working through the good and the bad. This has definitely not been an easy road. There are many obstacles, stresses, and frustrations. There is grief and longing for what was lost. There are also happy moments, things to celebrate both big and small, and hope for the future. We have two beautiful children, a roof over our heads, supportive friends and family, and try to keep a perspective to appreciate what is truly most important.
This is wordy, but I want those who know of this situation to know who Matt is. He needs to be recognized for the absolutely amazing individual that he is. I frequently get emotional discussing him or defending him because he is such a special person. I truly believe he is a gift to all the lives he touches in any way.
Losing his job was a blow to all of us. Matt is completely accepting of his part in all of this, what he could have done differently, and what needs to change as we go forward. We were fortunate for this situation to have been evaluated and handed to the general manager for his decision. He gladly welcomed Matt back to his position, starting immediately. Mistakes were made, communication was lost, and management was bad. The process was frustrating and I felt disappointed and out of the loop. Rumors spread and the emotions of many got involved. It was crazy. Things are still being ironed out so I cannot say much, but this was not at all handled how it should have been.
I must say that the general manager and several other managers came through for us. We felt heard and understood and new steps are being taken to make sure that this doesn't become a problem. We are working together to figure out a way for Matt to be as successful as possible.
Again, words cannot express the gratitude we have for all of you who have been supporting and encouraging us. It has buoyed us up in a hard time. Something tells me that Matt's story, our family's story, will continue to be spread and will continue to help and encourage other people. Tragedy often brings countless blessings, and I know in our lives this has proved to be true over and over.