Monday, October 8, 2007

Faster, Further, Longer, Stronger....

I am making this post to show my immense gratitude to my Father in Heaven for Matt's constant improvement. These pictures are from a few weeks ago when we walked along the trail that goes around the lake. It is hilly and uneven, and BEAUTIFUL. Last summer we walked regularly, but Matt could only go out a quarter of a mile. The other day when we walked we went 2 miles and Matt said he could go farthur but it was getting kind of cold! His balance is so much better, he walks faster, his gait is smoother, he has more indurance and strength. He also loves to go on walks and no longer sees it as a chore. It is definitely one of the best things we do together as a family. I love the quality time together.


Here he is just hiking along...he's so cute with his professional hiking poles (the best investment ever!) They give him more stability and confidence...plus, they look cool!

I cannot brag enough on how far Matt has come in the last year. Sometimes we both get discouraged and frustrated because we want everything NOW, but if we sit and reflect on how far he has come, what his abilities are, and his motivation to keep trying, we realize what true miracles have already taken place. I am awed and amazed at the way the last two years have gone. We were told that Matt would remain uconscious indefinately, and if he were to awaken, he would be in a vegetative state. We were told that he would not dress himself, eat by himself, or even be able to swallow. He likes to brag that he gets up and showers, dresses, (often before I get my lazy bum out of bed), and is able to eat (in LARGE quantities), ALL BY HIMSELF! hah! Those things are very simple for him.

I am so grateful though, because they weren't always simple. When he first came home from the hospital he needed constant help and care with every daily activity and task. He was confused, disoriented, forgetful, etc. He has come a long way, and we continue to see great and innumerable improvements and strides. He talks faster and more clearly, his long and short term memory are MUCH better, he maintains a sense of humor (extremely corny I might add), and still constantly shows love and devotion to Kaden and I.

Although I would never have dreamed we could make it through the things we have endured, and sometimes I lay awake at night wondering HOW we are going to do it....I wouldn't change my life. I LOVE my husband more than words can express. I LOVE my baby more than words can express. I LOVE where we live. I LOVE our wonderful, supportive friends and family. I LOVE the gospel, and I LOVE my life. I know things will all work out for us. We are happy and doing our best. I have so much to be grateful for and so much to share with those around me.






This is what really matters....our beautiful family.




I scraped this onto a rock for Matt....I DO LOVE HIM! When things are looked at through a proper perspective, we realize what matters most. Looking at my life in the right perspective makes me realize how loved and blessed I am.


My big man and my little man....my favorites.





10 comments:

Lindsay said...

You guys are so amazing. It's so important to keep things in perspective...I love checking up on you guys and am so awed by how well Matt is doing. You guys are an inspiration to all!

Dan and Ashley said...

Jess,
This post was so special and so sweet. Thinking back over the last two years really is a whirlwind with all that has happened. We never dreamed that weekend trip would change our lives forever. But thankfully we are all survivors--physically, emotionally, and spiritually. But especially you guys. Mine and Dan's lives will forever be better because we know and love you two and because we have your friendship. Words could never describe the special place your little family has in our hearts. I am always amazed at your's and Matt's strength, devotion, faith, and optimism. It is truly inspirational. You are the kind of person I want to become--if I can ever make it that far! Thanks for making my life better and for just being so darn wonderful! We love you guys and are so proud of Matt and all his accomplishments!!!! We can't wait to see you guys sometime soon and think of you often.

Lots of Love,

Ash

daniel said...

I love you guys and I miss Kaden's slobbery kisses. He sure is getting big!

Terry said...

Matt, Jessica, and Kaden

Your love of life and family is infectious; not to mention inspiring.
Ya'll are a testament to limitless boundaries and dreams. I look forward to seeing all of you grow and continue to meet life's challenges head on.

I'll be watching!

Terry

Zane and Lexi said...

Dear Woods:
I am so impressed by the faith and strength of your little family! You are truly examples to all of us and we look up to you and pray for Matt to continue moving forward! He looks great! We are thinking of you.
Love,
Lexi and Zane

Josephine said...

Thanks for the amazing post, and the update on how you guys are doing. Both of you are incredible people.

Erin and Ryan said...

Wow, we are so happy for how Matt has continued to improve, it really is a miracle! You guys are such an inspiration, thanks for that beautiful post!

Becca said...

As always, you are all an inspiration...

Anonymous said...

Thank you for the updates and photos I cant wait to see you guys for christmas
Keith

nicole said...

Wow! That's amazing! I'm so proud of Matt, and of course you too! You are both such incredible people. Yes, definitely an inspiration to all who know you...